ArtPrize 2014

The expression on her face revealed tremendous loss. Her wiry hair brushed my chin as her head dropped to my chest. While on the street near The Scarlet Cord installation, the woman embraced me for a long time.

As a friend rubbed her back, grief surfaced. A deep lament bubbled up. After several minutes, these five words escaped through her lips: “It happened to my granddaughter.”

The ache in this grandmother’s heart spilled out. Like so many others at ArtPrize, a nineteen day exhibition in Grand Rapids, Michigan, this grandmother needed a place of refuge. A sacred space. A healing.

Seeing the needs of the public and hearing their heart cries, I began to realize that my artwork spoke to deep wounds. Shame and brokenness—hidden for a long time, maybe years—finally was released. Words weren’t necessary. Individuals only wanted to express their sorrow.

The Scarlet Cord could be described as a street outreach. Next to the Gerald R. Ford Presidential Museum where my ArtPrize 2014 installation stood, many experienced renewal.

Women held my hand or hugged me. Several actually laid their heads on my chest and sobbed. Men wanted to shake my hand as well. These hurting people needed someone to identify with their sorrow, acknowledge the pain, touch them.

Heather Duffy, independent curator and ArtPrize exhibitions manager, referred to me as “an art chaplain.” Her description of my work and calling caught my attention. What has taken me years to articulate, Duffy identified in a moment.

But there was no denying it. This scenario of healing has played out again and again throughout my ArtPrize career. Whether focusing on heart disease, cancer, rape in Congo, autism, or, in the case of this year, sex trafficking, my artwork invites people to a place of hope. Vincent Van Gogh, one of the Dutch Masters, said, “Art is to console those who are broken by life.”

The Scarlet Cord, like Van Gogh observed, offered consolation to the broken. One afternoon when a middle-aged woman leaned into me and released a heavy sigh, I felt it to the core. Then she walked away. Not a single word was spoken. But something transpired. Whether large or small, this woman experienced healing—on the street—at ArtPrize.

Her body screamed, “Don’t touch me.” Yet her words revealed her vulnerability. Deep hidden trauma. Visible. She was trying to hide her past. Or perhaps her present. But she unveiled her secrets to a group of us standing opposite her at The Scarlet Cord installation.

One of the Women At Risk volunteers offered her a brochure, “Would you like more information?”

“No. I already know too much.”

“Would you like one of the artist’s cards?”

“No. I know more than I ever wanted to know.”

We felt her thin arms extend—saying “don’t come any closer”—although her arms were rigid at her sides. Everything about her emitted “don’t-touch-me” signals. I’m in control. No one will hurt me again.

She walked towards me, but she kept the brochure table between us. Although I had offered my hand to so many victims of sexual abuse during ArtPrize, I didn’t this time. I respected her need for distance, her need for safety.

“You have used all the right words,” she said.

Only one word from The Scarlet Cord stories came to mind: raped.

She remained stoic and thanked me for my artwork. Although she tried to maintain the impression of being unbroken, this young woman was fractured. Hardened. She had learned survival skills. Self-protection strategies. But I wondered if these carefully laid plans were blocking the road to healing. Or was she doing the best that she could for now?

Learning to trust again would be a long process for her. Maybe it would take a lifetime to overcome such deep wounds. This young woman needed caring people to journey with her towards wholeness, loving friends who would help break down the six-foot barrier. As she walked away, I hoped that forgiveness would one day free her and that she would be able to touch again.