Broken Wings No. 6: Healing Through Connection

Broken Wings No. 6: Girls Court 2019 collaborative project

A collaborative work with Girls Court of Michigan and artist Pamela Alderman

Scientists don’t completely understand the internal mechanism that guides monarch butterflies. But every winter, millions of monarchs migrate south to the San Andres Mountains in Mexico. Some butterflies even end up on the same exact trees where their ancestors roosted. After the monarch butterflies make the long journey to Mexico, they huddle together on the trees to stay warm.

Like the butterflies, we gathered—the Girls Court participants, the 17th Circuit Court Family Division staff, and the artist. Sponge-painting and conversations filled the fun evening. After we finished painting, one of the girls drew a butterfly shape to provide guidelines for our paper mosaic.

The following week, everyone helped tear and glue the sponge-painted paper onto the butterfly. However, one of the girls, whom I’ll call Brittany, asked if she could just sit and watch.

All the other girls enjoyed the creative process throughout the December evening. The group talked, laughed, and ate candy canes. But about an hour later, a curious thing happened. I noticed that Brittany had finally joined everyone else, gluing paper pieces and laughing along with them.

Much of the butterfly’s life-cycle is a collective process. The butterflies especially need one another to survive the hard winter. When Brittany started to work on the collaborative project, she experienced the power of community. Such relational connections can help heal our deepest wounds and release hope to complete the journey.

Your art projects with Girls Court always amaze me. We never know what we are doing in advance, and then we see the work transform into something beautiful.

Marcela Moralez-Morris, Juvenile Probation and Girls Court of Michigan

Lifting Others on Wings of Hope

Abstract butterfly made of handprints created by Pine Grove Learning Center students

Abstract work created by Pine Grove Learning Center students and Artist Pamela Alderman, with the generous contribution of Frames Unlimited.

To my surprise, special-education teacher Anne Aurand, my neighbor, left a bag in my mailbox filled with beautiful handprints painted by the profoundly challenged students from Pine Grove Learning Center. While spreading the creative treasures across my studio floor, I had a strong sense of the value of each precious student. I wanted to take my time to find a special idea of how to honor each student. A month later, as I arranged the handprints, an abstract butterfly shape emerged. This incredible piece portrays the physical gesture of open hands lifting each student on Wings of Hope.

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Color Me Orange—Color Me Kind Finds a Home!

Close-up detail of coy fish painting on Color Me Orange—Color Me Kind installation

We are honored to announce that Color Me Orange—Color Me Kind has found a permanent home at the newly renovated Montessori School in Kalamazoo, Michigan. The school entry wall was reinforced to house the 140 pound ArtPrize work. This fall, the students participated in one of our Healing in Arts workshops and created their own Color Me Orange—Color Me Kind piece that will also be displayed at the school. Both works serve as a reminder to paint our world orange with small acts of kindness.

Children creating interactive art projects in school workshops

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Recovering from Sexual Abuse

Wounded - Mixed media art and part of The Scarlet Cord installation

Tammy’s Story

Survivors often begin to experience healing when they finally acknowledge the sexual abuse. Over time, some even reach the point when they can let go of the guilt and shame. These first bold steps often end up sparking hope. This inspirational story occurred at The Scarlet Cord exhibit:

While I was raising awareness for sex trafficking at The Scarlet Cord, a young woman I call Tammy asked for one of the scarlet cords that we gave away to exhibit visitors. As I tied a cord on Tammy’s wrist, she burst into tears. The sexual abuse, she said, had lasted for years during her childhood.

“The shame and the guilt of your sexual abuse,” I said, “belongs to your perpetrators. The individuals who committed the crimes against you. The shame and the guilt doesn’t belong to you.”

Tammy’s perpetrator, a teacher, had told her that she had invited the abuse by being seductive. “His accusations are part of the abuse,” I explained. “Children don’t solicit sexual abuse; children are the victims.”

A month later, one of Tammy’s friends emailed me to thank me for reaching out to her. The friend wrote, “Ever since that night when we met at The Scarlet Cord, Tammy has been feeling encouraged.”

Tammy’s first bold steps for healing gave her a sense of new beginnings.

Find out more about The Scarlet Cord exhibit.

Note: The name and some details have been changed to protect identities.

Starting the Butterfly Effect

Whitney’s Story

Pamela and WhitneyThe butterfly effect, an alternative scientific theory, challenges us to consider that every tiny action could have a large effect. The smallest deed or word–positive or negative–has the potential to change the course of an individual’s life. Whitney’s story demonstrates how to turn heartache into an opportunity for hope:

Whitney, a bullied Michigan teen, was voted onto the homecoming court—as a cruel prank. Responding to the negative butterfly effect, she said, “I feel like trash.” She even considered ending her life. But her sister convinced her to prove the other kids wrong. When local businesses heard about Whitney’s decision to go through with the homecoming, they donated a gown, shoes, and a makeover. She concluded, “I’m not the joke everyone thinks I am.” Whitney ended up transforming her community with the butterfly effect of courage.

Whitney’s story inspired the Broken Wings exhibit.

Coloring with Kindness

Teenagers tying ribbons on Color Me Orange—Color Me Kind at ArtPrize 2016

Nathan’s Story

Color Me Orange—Color Me Kind shines a spotlight on bullying. The installation is specifically tailored toward middle school students—often the most vulnerable. Sadly, some of these students suffer so intensely from bullying that they believe suicide is the only way to end it all.

Our intentional kindness has the potential to brighten someone’s world. Maybe kindness, love, and understanding could have helped those who committed suicide because of bullying. Here’s how Nathan used his limited resources to color someone’s life with kindness and inspire hope:

D’Mario used the f-word and flipped me off a few times; he was the only kid in our sixth-grade class I tried to avoid. D’Mario was angry at everyone, but I was his target.

During basketball season, D’Mario and I ended up on the same team. He threatened, “You better quit, or I’ll hurt you.” D’Mario used sports to get his anger out; he used sports to control.

One day, the holes in D’Mario’s old Nike shoes gave me an idea. I made $2.50 a day walking a dog, so I started saving up. After two months, I bought a decent pair of Adidas shoes for 60 bucks. When I gave D’Mario the basketball shoes, his eyes got big.

That moment sparked something; D’Mario realized that I wasn’t out to get him. I showed him that I cared.

Once I got the courage to reach out to D’Mario, he realized that we weren’t competitors. I felt relieved. He started giving me compliments on the court; I gave him compliments back. By taking a risk and choosing kindness, my actions brought out D’Mario’s nice side.

Nathan, age 12

Nathan’s story inspired the Color Me Orange—Color Me Kind exhibit.

Broken Wings Continues to Bring Healing

Broken Wings Courthouse project

Wow! It’s been an exciting year! Following ArtPrize, I had the privilege to work with incarcerated teens and their probation officers with the 17th Circuit Court in Kent County, Michigan. Throughout December, I guided this special group through a hands-on project where the girls created a 3×3 foot Broken Wings butterfly made of almost 600 Plexiglas tiles. While painting the tiles, the girls and I discussed the word “trust“ and how to treat each other with kindness. The finished work is proudly displayed in the Kent County Courthouse.

Broken Wings Holland Home project

From February through May, Holland Home of Grand Rapids, Michigan invited me to work with seniors across all levels of care. Around 400 seniors helped make six hands-on pieces. It was a real honor to work with this vibrant group of older adults. They probably taught me more about life than I taught them about art. Our discussions about World War II, resiliency, and leaving a legacy made a healing impact.

Broken Wings Art Mysteries

Students from schools in Virginia, Colorado, and Michigan enjoyed the creative discovery process with my Art Mystery projects. It was fascinating to see their enthusiasm and delight as they solved the Art Mysteries.

The healing art also traveled to schools in Kenya and Uganda with two different volunteer teams. I couldn’t wait to see the finished work when the teams returned back home (shown below).

Broken Wings in Africa

Thank you so much for your generous donations. Your investment has made a HUGE difference in the lives of so many individuals from ArtPrize to Africa. My next project tackles the serious issues of pornography, rape, and sex trafficking. Again, thanks a MILLION for your kind support!